Once the cycle is completed, it begins all over again. After the frustration and resentment builds up long enough, it spills out in the form of rage attacks, passive-aggressive behavior, pouting, tantrums, withdrawing, shaming, criticizing, blaming, and physical abuse.Remember, the Nice Guy is the one keeping score, and isn’t totally objective. When he doesn’t get as much in return, he becomes frustrated and resentful.The Nice Guy gives to others hoping to get something in return.It consists of three predictable sequences: The Nice Guy often sees themselves as the victim, and giving to get creates a cycle of craziness that turns into what Dr. Be nice, dammit! I promise a giggle or two from me to you.Nice Guys use a contract that says “I will do this X, so that you will do Y” but this contract is only known to the Nice Guy and they become resentful when the other person does not give back. Romantic, delicious with a touch of intrigue and blood.' - Gracey Castro Read this book and laugh with (not at) me. I most definitely did not believe in the Nice Guy Syndrome until this book. 'Phil's day to day kindness and sharing of relationships knows no bounds. 'Congrats to Phil Torcivia on the newest book! Here's hoping I don't get my Kindle taken away from me by my Doctor's assistant for giggling too loudly in the exam room.' - Anita-Michelle Miller Don't read this smut in the middle of the airport, LOL, or you will find your face turning the same color as this book cover.' - Cathy Cook Torcivia will you find such a mix of wise truth about men and their behavior. All I can do is vent, and hope someday, some woman will realize she deserves something better than bad boy bruises. So, what's a nice guy to do? Should I shed my skin, get a Harley and tattoos, lose all concern for how I'm perceived, and begin banging lonely chicks by the dozen, just to please my pecker? I can't do it.

I'm a master of the above and, thereby, block my own access to the physical parts of women I long for. Understanding what it is women want, even when they don't say the words My relatives and teachers instilled in me the importance of: If there is a hell, this is it, and I'm in the penthouse. He's loved and admired, but not the type of fellow women sleep with. Often, he is a kind and sympathetic person who listens well, and lends a shoulder for women to cry on. Nice Guy Syndrome is an affliction where a heterosexual male is frustrated because he finds himself caged within the friend zone of women he'd prefer to be dating.

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